Growing up

I've noticed that everyone is "growing up" so fast. People are getting married, having babies, and even getting a divorce. And I remember always thinking to myself (even telling people) that I would never be one of those people that got married right out of high school. But look what happened. I got married 6 months after I graduated and had a baby the next year. I've been thinking a lot lately about certain people that used to tell me to "grow up".... well, I guess I took it literally. I look at those people now and love that I can say I've grown up and they are still busy telling people to grow up. Honestly, I have been through so much in the last year, how many people can say they had a baby and got married at 19 years old? Maybe I didnt CHOOSE to grow up, maybe it was something I knew I HAD to do. For Jori, myself, and especially for Tayzli. But it still doesnt change the fact that i DID grow up. I'm sick of hearing that im too young to be married, or im too young to have a baby. All the rumors that went around, and still go around about me and jori used to bug me, to the point I wanted to just give up. I learned not to listen to people, they will do anything to tear you down, just to make themselves feel better or to get a reaction out of you. It still hurts and always will hurt to hear bad or untrue things about you. But dont ever regret doing something in your life, just LEARN from it. Never in a million years did I think I would have a family at 19. I'd like to see anyone go through all the drama, lies, and tears i've gone through in the last year THEN try talking crap. I promise this last year has been the hardest I've ever had to deal with. And I'm sure there's many to come. But i know now that i CAN do it, I CAN get through anything.

Besides the fact that its been HARD. And I've wanted to give up, I wouldn't change ANYTHING thats happened. ever. Its made me realize who i really am, even how strong i really am. I LOVE where i'm at in life. I have an amazing husband that does so much for me daily, and sacrifices so many things for me. I have a daughter that I couldn't imagine NOT having, she doesnt know she does it but just by looking at her puts me in a better mood. she brightens my day just with her smile. and she has a laugh that can melt anyones heart.

Anyways, the point of this post is for me to get out some emotions and also to let anyone else reading this know....that if you are ever having a hard time, you CAN get through it. Dont give up no matter what is being said or what is happening in your life. Most of my HARD TIMES have just ended up being a blessing in disguise. Things that were happening that I never thought I'd get over, now i can look back and laugh. Let your trials make you stronger and be more aware of all the good things you DO have in life. Do what makes YOU happy..

Husband and Wife

I thought i'd do a little questionnaire about us.

What are your middle names?
His-Philip
Mine-BreAnn

Who is older?
He is, but that's exactly how I like it.

How long did you date?
Well..the highschool stuff doesn't count. So starting when he got home from his mission...its been almost two years.

Who said I love you first?
That would definitely be jori. My response was uhh thanks? Haha he felt so dumb but it didn't stop him from telling me even though I hadn't said it back for about two weeks after he did.

Who is more romantic?
Jori tries to be. Haha we have a lot of inside jokes about being romantic.

Did you go to the same high school/college?
We sure did. Good ol sugar Salem high

Where is the furtherest you have traveled together?
We went to Mexico, it was way fun.

How long have you been together?
Almost two years.

Do you have any children together?
Just one for now. Tayzli kamiko inns, we will eventually have a few more though.
What about pets?
Not anymore. Myles has a new home with my parents and he loves it!

Who is the smartest?
Oooh jori is "always" right. Haha no depending on the subject that's why we make a great couple, the things I know he doesn't and the things I don't know he does.

Who is the most sensitive?
Surprisingly it alternates. You'd never know jori can be very sensitive.

Who has the worst temper?
Oh that's a tough one, I think I do.

Who does the cooking?
We both do. Jori really likes cooking though

Who is more social?
Jori is easily more social. I don't think anyone could be more social than him though.

Who is the neat-freak?
Neither one of us. Not that we have a messy house all the time but we aren't obsessive about it which is really nice for both of us.

Who is the most affectionate?
I used to be, but he is more affectionate now.

Who is the most stubborn?
I AM!

Who hogs the bed?
I'd say we like to take turns, but majority of the time jori is hogging the bed. Even though he says its only cause he likes being close to me...good excuse! But I have noticed he always has to be touching me.
Who wakes up earlier?
Jori for sure!! He's such a morning person and I'm a night person.

Where do you eat out at most as a couple?
Depends on what we are in the mood for, neither one of us are too picky about what we eat. He loves Mexican I love Italian though.

Where do you shop the most as a couple?
For groceries we go to Walmart for clothes we go to buckle.

Who is the first to admit they are wrong?
Jori. When its something serious. He's a lover not a fighter.

Who proposed?
You don't really think I would propose do you? Haha of course jori did. At temple square, the most romantic he had ever been ;)

Who drives when you are together?
Usually jori, I don't mind driving though.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
facing the bed, he does. But it changes when we move or wherever we stay, I have to be further froth closet and the door. Because yes, I still get scared like a little girl.

Personality

I've actually been recording tayzli quite a bit lately, I keep saying how much fun she is getting and each time I write on my blog I realize she gets more personality each time I post. I have a few videos I want to post but this is the only one working for now...I will keep trying though.

You wouldn't guess it, but she loves kasia. But even more than kasia she LOVES Jake, anytime he's around she just stares at him or gives him the smile where she tilt her head and shrugs her shoulders. I asked her if she had a crush on him and she gave me a huge smile and a little giggle. It is hilarious. so watch out kasia, looks like you have some competition. Anyways, this video just proves how much personality she's getting, she was screaming at one point because kas kept tickling her stomach.

Tayzli meets Brylie

Tyson and Meghan decided to come visit us in Colorado and we definitely had some good laughs while they were here! I'm so glad they came...

Brylie has gotten SO big, and she is has the cutest personality. It was hilarious to watch her with Tayz, she gave her loves everytime she could. (We had to watch her pretty close because i think she liked tayzli a little too much haha)Tayzli is a little champ though. Even when Bry Bry was climbing all over her she would just sit there and look at bry like...whoa...she's so tough. We went bowling one day while they were here which was way fun too. Meg and I aren't great bowlers, to say the least. but we beat the boys the first game so i wont say much about how good the boys are! haha then Tyson decided to throw Jori's socks and look where they happened to land...we didnt even try getting them down. She slept the whole time, i had to wake her up to take this picture, but she went RIGHT back to sleep. I cant get enough of her!! and neither can everyone else whenever we go out in public.

Brylie was ALSO very good. she just hung out in her carseat the whole time. It was funny because everywhere we went people would ask if they were twins....which was weird because to us, they look nothing alike. Maybe its because they have the same carseat. But it was still fun to hear people talk as we would walk around with them saying how cute they were.

Tys and Meg
Us

This is MY new phone. You can be jealous, it IS awesome. ;)

But of course, theres a story for everything so here goes.....We went to the mall just to get out of the apartment. Meg and I decided to go our separate ways with the boys so we went shopping while they took the girls and walked around and did their own thing.

Well anyways....we left the mall and went to go get something to eat. Jori went in to get the food and we all stayed in the car, well all of a sudden we heard a phone ring and it came from my purse. I was like guys, this isnt my phone...is it yours? and i kept repeating myself. I was so confused. Then i thought to myself....did Jori STEAL this? because he had my purse while we were at the mall and i thought he had been playing with it and had accidently put it in my purse not thinking. haha so im sitting there like guys did jori steal this phone? and they wouldnt answer me, i was getting SO frustrated. then i looked at it and the missed call was from jori's number and he comes back just laughing, then tys and meg started laughing at me too. They all still give me crap because i kept thining jori stole it. haha I was super embarrassed but way glad to have a new phone! I love it! And i'm very glad he paid for it ;)

Thanks babe!!